It must be money.<\/p>\n
Some people believe that at some point we have to buckle down and decide what we want from life in the love department.<\/p>\n
For those of you who just want to live life and treat people with kindness you will understand when I say, Who really cares.<\/p>\n
Love Is Love And Money Is Money = Imagine That<\/h2>\n
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Frankly, I don’t care why other people want to date each other<\/strong>, to each their own.<\/p>\n Remember that movie, “What Women Want<\/strong>” in 2008 starring Helen Hunt and Mel Gibson?<\/p>\n Yes, Mrs. CBB had me watch it along with every Twilight movie going. Did I mention I was a fan of the Young and The Restless, all her doing?<\/p>\n Well, it’s true women just don’t want men with a big bank account because money can be earned and saved<\/strong>.<\/p>\n You’re not supposed to be falling in love with fame, fortune, and who your name is associated with it.<\/p>\n Sadly, it happens all of the time whether it’s the girl and guy next door or the PR couples in Hollywood.<\/p>\n For some men and women who want to stay relevant they will continue to partner with fame and fortune but for others not so much.<\/p>\n Someone like myself for example who wants to live a simple life fell in love with a woman half-way across the world.<\/p>\n Women want more than just a hot body, money, and a man who can go all night in the bedroom.<\/p>\n They want a gentleman with brains who knows how to treat her right but also has goals in life and works towards them.<\/p>\n Have you ever met the guy who was going to do something but forgot and never got back to it? I have me. I confess that’s me sometimes.<\/p>\n I put too much on my plate and for some women who are uber-organized like my wife it bugs her and I don’t blame her.<\/p>\n That’s why over the years I’ve set the blog aside and work and put family first and making sure chores get completed.<\/p>\n Money can be earned, that’s right and more women today are independent and don’t need cowboy money which is a whole new sexy.<\/p>\n Women bosses don’t need men to feed them, dress them, or put a roof over their heads because they’ve taken control of the wheel.<\/p>\n Whether women work from home, start a business, or a blog to earn extra cash they are taking advantage of stepping it up.<\/p>\n You will be surprised how many women find dating frugal men are sexy<\/a> because they understand the point of financial independence.<\/p>\n Being upfront about finance before a relationship gets serious is something I feel is important for every couple.<\/p>\n I know we all say that we fall in love for every other reason but money however there is an influence.<\/p>\n The influence falls somewhere between eating Kraft Dinner forever or someone willing to work on their financial health.<\/p>\n You can date a man or woman who has debt and willing to work on becoming debt-free or stick with the I’ll get to it guy or gal.<\/p>\n Money is high up the list of reltionship wreckers so there is no time to be shy when moving to the next level in a relationship.<\/p>\n If you chase someone just for money or status you will be disappointed when it falls apart.<\/p>\n Let me explain before you read any further that you don’t have to be a movie star or famous person.<\/p>\n A person may be rich in the city you live in and often in the news for various reasons.<\/p>\n There are men and women who will continue dating someone for the luxury but living a sad life.<\/p>\n As mentioned famous people do this all the time to help their public relations numbers jump into the millions.<\/p>\n It’s a way of showing the world what they have, who they are dating, and look how rich and noticeable when we are together.<\/p>\n They headline all the news and papparazzi follow them like flies just to get the first shot or the right shot.<\/p>\n Is there love? Who knows but if it’s PR, likely not.<\/p>\n We know someone who moved to America in his 30’s to date a woman in her 50’s only because she had lots of money.<\/p>\n He has no love for her but wanted to live the no effort required life.<\/p>\n Besides that, he gets to say that she’s his girlfriend and ride in front seat of luxury.<\/p>\n Another person we know is in her 40’s dating men in their 60’s who pay for her botox and other procedures.<\/p>\n She hops from man to man and although we don’t judge her this is not uncommon for men and women.<\/p>\n There’s a fine line between love and happiness and being cheap\/frugal in the beginning stages based on compatibility.<\/p>\n I flew back and forth to Canada and brought my wife all over the UK and it cost me a pretty penny but it was worth it.<\/p>\n However, I wasn’t buying her jewellery, fancy clothes, namebrand perfumes, or taking her out for expensive dinners.<\/p>\n I was simply spending time with her doing something we both love and that’s being together.<\/p>\n If you live by the budget you should leave room for entertainment especially if you are single but more importantly if you’re married.<\/p>\n I’m aware that this is just impossible to do for some people but in time as bills get paid you’ll have a surplus.<\/p>\n It’s important to be yourself when dating so the other person knows what they are getting themselves into.<\/p>\n I also don’t think you need to take your date to MacDonald’s unless he\/she really wants a Big Mac.<\/p>\n Ideally, if you’ve been talking for a while you’ll know what she likes to eat so just make reservations at a local restaurant.<\/p>\n If men have no intention to want more from a woman then why do they bother dating them? Furthermore, they complain about how high maintenance they are and draining them of cash flow?<\/p>\n So, how do men get from point A (seeing a woman they are interested in) to point B (dating her)?<\/p>\n Well for the men that are shy they have their wing man but for those men that aren’t shy like me they go it alone like a prince calling for his lady (ya right but something like that).<\/p>\n It’s also common now for men and women to find love by trying on-line dating sites.<\/p>\n It’s easier to be yourself behind a screen while getting to know someone while costing you nothing until you ask her on a date.<\/p>\n People who say online dating services are rubbish make me laugh because if you think meeting someone in a bar is any different you are sadly mistaken.<\/p>\n Think about it. No matter where you meet someone they can be whoever they think you want them to be.<\/p>\n I’m no Hitch but I certainly feel like it sometimes as my friends can be real tossers in the dating department.<\/p>\n I guess I’m what they call a wing man but not by definition as I think it’s silly.<\/p>\n Some men think money is the way to a woman’s heart and they are wrong unless they find women who are looking for men to spend.<\/p>\n Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but it’s not only what’s on the outside it’s what’s in your heart that counts.<\/p>\n Somehow, many people tend to forget this and pay for it down the road with costly divorce<\/strong> <\/a>battles.<\/p>\n So when my friends go on about the amount of money they spend on women who never come back I ask them these questions depending on the stage of the dating rigamarole…<\/p>\n Sometimes men can be right plonkers when it comes to women and dating but need to remember that who you claim to be should be who you really are.<\/p>\n We forget that it has to be more than just physical attractiveness that draws us to life long partners.<\/p>\n In all real men and women are very different and money in relationships is a big issue.<\/p>\n If you try to be someone you are not when you meet someone eventually the real you will come out.<\/p>\n Whether you are a saver or a spender <\/a>eventually talking about it with a potential partner is very important.<\/p>\n You don’t need to be cheap when dating, just use your brains, and be creative.<\/p>\n Women only want to be loved and appreciated just like the next guy, after all, money can be made yet love is serendipity.<\/p>\n Discussion: When you and your spouse\/partner were dating what did you really want?<\/strong><\/p>\n YoUr eYes, sMiLe, And The Way You Make Me Feel Is Why I Love You Have you ever met a couple and thought, “why is he with her?” or “why is she with him?” It must be money. 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