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<\/span>Estimated reading time: <\/span>10<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you’re a single man looking to date frugal sexy women but struggling to find your match, there is hope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chance Meetings Begin With Hello<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Love is less about finding sexy individuals than finding the perfect connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For some people, love is more than what you feel in the heart; it’s also about how well you deal with money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men today, just like women, are looking for someone who will complement their passion for frugal living.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let’s not forget that a healthy relationship takes more than just money.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That means money is only one part of the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are Frugal Men Sexy?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In 2012, I wrote a post asking whether frugal men were sexy<\/a>,<\/strong> which quickly became popular. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since then, I’ve noticed quite a few visits to the blog where men were seeking advice about women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, some men want to date women who give some thought to their financial future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s funny how easy it is to generalize one gender over the other, but there are no comparisons, as we are both equal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The problem is that most people don’t know where to start when looking for love as they age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The older we get, the harder dating seems, especially if career and family come first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In our younger years, we would go to the clubs dancing every weekend, enjoying the nightlife, but that quietly dwindled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Those long nights of drunken fun for many are toned down to coffee shops, local pubs, museums, art exhibits, traveling, and so on as the years pass by.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some people say we look for love in all the wrong places, and perhaps that’s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Protecting the heart is as precious as protecting what you’ve got in your bank account.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only do the men want to protect their gold, but the women are also on top of the money game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s not uncommon to see women working in traditional roles that men typically flock to, such as firefighters, police officers, or trades jobs<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women can and want to earn their own money, and rightfully so, because an independent woman relies on herself first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How many women have told you you will never rely on a man for money?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don’t think anything is wrong with that, and I find that very appealing about a woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She doesn’t have to earn big bucks, but she has to have the drive to do something that she enjoys with her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I moved to Canada, I had no job and no Canadian education, yet my wife and I were madly in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She knew that I would find my way, and I did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At first, it was hard for a young guy like myself in a strange country, but I wanted to succeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was very happy to learn that Mrs. CBB was passionate about saving money and understanding retirement and investing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knew that I didn’t have to worry about her spending habits. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She felt the same about me when she learned I loved personal finance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Importance of The Word “Sexy” When Dating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Why is being sexy so important when dating?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, the ‘sexy’ appeal is just as important as what is deep inside the heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m sure sex appeal is a driving force that brings two people together. It may be the eyes, hair, or smile, but something attracts you to sexy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had a guy email me about dating last week, which is great because it’s not often men write in with relationship questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There seems to be a trend of men wanting to know how to find frugal women who care about personal finance as much as they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, let’s talk about this topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How To Find True Love<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n
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Dear Mr.CBB,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I work out at the gym daily and take care of myself, and I’ve been told I’m a handsome guy who loves life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’ve had enough of the dating scene, and I’m tired of getting used and abused financially by these women I seem to fall for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m also tired of getting heartbroken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything seems to be going well after we meet and go on a date, but once we pass the third month or so, BAM, she hits me with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The girl seems to get comfortable with my wallet and is always asking me to buy this or that, and they don’t stop with those puppy eyes either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I talk finance with the ladies I date, but sometimes I wonder if they nod to make me happy or pretend to care about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What happened to date etiquette, and why am I always paying for everything?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Career Exposure<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I’m a new veterinarian<\/a><\/strong>, and finding a woman who wants me for me and not my bank account seems harder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I say I’m a doctor, I worry about whether they like me or my career.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, I earn a great living, and I know it’s easy to blow it all and go broke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some guy friends tell me to shrug it off and that I have nothing to worry about financially, but that’s not the case here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My concern is the future; how she spends money is as important to me as my spending habits should be to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I want to know that I have found a woman equally eager to save money for retirement and our children and stay debt-free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Good Career Doesn’t Mean You’re Rich<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I’ve seen too many things happen as a vet where families come in, and they can’t afford to care for their pet, and they have good jobs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because people make good money doesn’t mean they don’t have to worry about how far they can stretch it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A budget is very important to me, and I still need to watch what I buy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was frugal in university, and although I like the finer things in life, I know how to spend money without going broke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Type Of Women I Meet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The women I meet want to shop at all the high-end stores buying $500 purses and shoes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes I wonder if they are trying to impress me or think I only date women with the hottest look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m not that guy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I like a beautiful woman, but that doesn’t mean she must go broke trying to be sexy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is an allure about naturally sexy women, and I appreciate that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This woman I recently dated told me she was in debt of $45,000<\/strong> because of school loans and couldn’t stop buying all the new trendy fashion items.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She studied fashion, and it was hard not to have what was hot on the market because she was in the industry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had asked her what she thought about saving money, frugal living, and living a debt-free life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She laughed and said, “Not this Girl.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“I make good money, so I’ll pay it off; it’s no big deal,” as she took another sip of her drink and smiled. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She said, “You want me to look beautiful for you, don’t you?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHAT? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I nearly spit my drink out but managed to swish it down with visions of seeing $0 in our marital bank account if we got married flash before my eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was looking for the exit, but the gentleman in me said that he would enjoy the date and move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Looking For Sexy Women<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Why can’t I find any intelligent, sexy women who are not afraid to enjoy the simplicity of life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let’s face it, I’m not a millionaire, and it may be some time before I am, but that still doesn’t change how I feel about my potential partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I would love to find an independent woman who knows how to balance a budget, pay her credit cards in full, and understands how important finance and love are within a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m not trying to put money first here, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I can’t get my head around it and wonder if I will ever fall in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I want a woman who will love me back without thinking about her next shopping purchase and booking all her beauty appointments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How can I find a woman who complements my heart and passion for finance?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Any help or advice is appreciated, and thanks for having an outlet to chat about relationships on a personal finance blog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Dr. D<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sexy Women Are All Around Us<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Hey Doc,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m amazed how many people don’t want to get involved with people who have lots of debt or don’t know how to control their spending habits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, I’m not shocked as it’s 2015, and life is expensive. Unfortunately, with that comes the financial responsibility of looking after oneself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, debt is no big deal for some people because if they love someone, they will work on that debt together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I can understand that, but my question would be, is the reason for the debt under control?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If working out is part of the plan to find sexy women to date, it will only get you so far in the dating world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, if you have a juicy fat bank account or a great career, you won’t have issues finding someone to date you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, people of all genders can be very greedy when finding a potential partner with the money to keep them happy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stay healthy because you want to look and feel good about yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love Or A Good Time<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

My wife has women friends who have been married and divorced and don’t care about love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All they want is a good time, and they are going along for the ride as long as he has the cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m not saying anything that the world already doesn’t know here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are just as sly when they want something and don’t want to work to get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know a guy who liked to date older women because he says they have all the cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He looks for sexy women complimenting him and his posh, wannabe lifestyle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He would find them at the gym, where he worked out and chatted them up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they were widowed, even better because life insurance policies and dollars swirled in his head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some older women love younger, tanned men with muscles, like my friend, who has never had an issue finding a woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He’s now married to an older woman who cares financially for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In his eyes, he’s scored a jackpot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We are all betting on how long this relationship will last.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I can see how revealing that you are a doctor may motivate the wrong type of sexy woman you are looking to date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some women only date men with high-profile jobs, and you are one of those men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you are ready to crush the dating scene, you must know where to find your true love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In all honesty, I don’t believe we should be hunting for true love<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I believe we will fall in love with the right person at the right time and place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Call it fate if you will, but it always seemed easier for me to leave love to the gods.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I believe we put too much emphasis on ‘finding’ rather than just living and being ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just be yourself and stop living day-to-day peddling to find love to fill your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you continue to do so, you will attract all the wrong sexy women you don’t want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you least expect it, the right woman with all the qualities you yearn for will come along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Online Dating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You could also try online dating sites if you are into that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I always see advertising for “eHarmony Canada<\/strong>” on television among the hundreds of websites online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This may help to weed out the women you don’t want to date and showcase those sexy women you are looking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There have been many successful marriages that have come from online dating sites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you must remember that if you try too hard, you will never find who should truly stand next to you forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t settle, and if it feels right, go with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If finance is important, discuss it within the first couple of dates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t waste time dating someone if you already know they aren’t right for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I always had luck meeting women at the grocery store, sightseeing, traveling, or other community events.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, long-distance relationships work; I’m living proof of that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We’ve been married for almost 9 years now and love each other more and more every day. It’s all about communication and working together towards our goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are no right or wrong answers here because you are the only one who can find what you are looking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t give up on true love because it will find you; when it does, you’ll know it. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She will take your breath away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Mr.CBB<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Discussion What other tips do you have for Mr. Doc?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please leave your comments below. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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